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Marriage?

               Today, Marriage is not what it used to be. Marriage has changed a lot and has become something new. In the eighteenth-century marriage was a way to obtain or keep wealth. It was political. In the middle-class family’s marriage was a business deal and for the women, it was a way to gain economic security. Love was not in the matter, and it was mainly arranged marriages.  Eventually, as time went on men started turning to their wives for intimacy instead of turning to concubines or other women. Women turned to their husbands as well for intimacy instead of just economic security. In fact, in today’s world intimacy is one of the primary goals in marriage. As we can see people marry for more than love and intimacy. Some people marry for wealth, politics, business, security, as well as several other things. However, some people do marry for love.               When looking for a spouse we run into several social factors and conditions. We run into stereotypes and other expe

Choices

               There are so many choices in our life that we must make. Some of these include what to wear, eat, act, and say. Especially, today we need to be careful in picking our words. It is easier in this time period to offend people. Therefore, yes, we have several different choices in our lives to make from the time we wake up to the time we fall asleep. However, this is not what I am talking about today in this post. Today, I am talking about the choice to date.               What is dating? Is it just spending time with someone? Maybe, just being around them? Neither of these are true. Spending time with someone and just being around them is just hanging out. If dating and hanging out are different then what are the differences between them? First, dating in the dictionary states, “going out with someone you are romantically interested in”. I am going to elaborate on this by giving an example. If someone asks you on a date, what do you expect? Do you expect a night in just w

Male vs Female

Males and Females have different callings on this earth. Females from birth tend to be more social, they learn to talk earlier, and they communicate and ask for help. Where Males are more physical, they learn how to talk later, and they want to fix and solve the problem. Females are more emotional and if they hurt people, it is more likely that they will hurt them emotionally than physically. Where men are more likely to hurt others physically. Females just like for others to listen to the problem and if they won't help, they will ask for it. However, males tend to want to fix the problem and solve it as soon as they can.     Females’ calling on this earth is to be nurturing. In my opinion, because women are more social and emotional, I believe that their place is in the home. I know that there are a lot of people who do not agree with me. However, I feel that having a mother in the home can affect the way the child ends up in life. They will be more social, caring, and do things b

Social Status

               There are several movies out there in the world that show us different forms of social status. They show us the stereotypical high-class families, middle-class families, and lower-class families. No matter what the stereotype is in the movie I wanted to know if this stereotype was real. In movies and shows, they really focus on the high-class and low-class families. This seems to show the drastic difference between the people’s lives. Sometimes the child growing up in the low class is rude and causes trouble. Sometimes it is the high-class child that is the bully. Some show that the low-class child is rude because the parents aren’t around. It shows the parents working hard for the family so that they always have food and a roof over their heads. Because of this, the child feels neglected, they come home from school and do not have someone to keep them out of trouble. Most of the time they do not go home. They go somewhere else and get into drugs and alcohol. Then there